Friday, November 7, 2014

"Love your neighbor as yourself." Jesus



Seven Portuguese men were seated around a makeshift table. Some were in the shade of a large weathered umbrella. All talked loudly as men do when on their own. I couldn’t understand a word they said.

As I approached with my cell phone in hand, the conversations stopped. All eyes were on me. There were no smiles. “Who is this guy and what does he want?” was written on every face.

“May I take your picture?” I asked.

Two of them grinned.

One man without a smile jumped up from his chair, reached for a bottle of red liquid and began to fill two plastic cups. The group of rugged men had curious looks on their faces as they sized up my new friend Bill and me.

All I wanted was a couple of pictures for my artist wife, Peggy, to paint. This group of hardened workers, enjoying a seafood feast in front of their boat, was quite a paintable scene.

We had interrupted this crew of commercial fishermen while they were eating their lunch of fresh fish, part of the day's catch. The man with no smile ordered one of the men to vacate the chair next to his. Orders were immediately followed.

Within seconds, two cups of the red liquid were placed on the table. "Sangria," the one still without a smile said as he pointed to the cups with one hand and the vacated chairs with the other. "Sit."

I shook his hand and looked him in the eye. He nodded, and almost smiled.

I didn’t understand the Portuguese the men spoke, but I did recognize the word “captain,” indicating the bossy one. Bill and I decided following orders was the right thing to do. 

Our backsides hadn't been in the chairs for thirty seconds before our captain placed two giant sardines on bread with olive oil in front of us. Everyone at the table was smiling. I felt a little lost not knowing their language, so I just smiled and pointed at my fish to let them know how good it tasted. One of the men then asked, "Do you speak English?"  

Oh no, I thought. "Yes.  This is very good!" I replied feeling a little foolish for assuming no one in the group would be able to understand us.

No sooner had we eaten half of our sandwiches, the captain produced two more. With hands that had never seen an easy day's work, he showed me how to peel the skin from my catch.  

It was evident the captain had molded this crew into a unit any NFL defensive coordinator would be proud to lead. All were good sports, sharing a meal with total strangers. But of one thing I am certain, I would rather not be on the bad side of any of them. Seamen have a look that marks them as survivors...of anything.

We finished our meal. Bill and I stood, and after the third time of thanking the captain for everything, he reluctantly granted us permission to exit.



So a valuable lesson learned, again. Never judge a book by its cover. These rugged gentlemen exhibited the hospitality the ambassador of any embassy would welcome.  

Another new friend asked me if I was sure they hadn't given me baitfish. I laughed, and for a split second had second thoughts. Then I realized how special today's encounter had been. Dining in the shadow of a commercial fishing vessel with the captain and crew had opened my eyes.

The experience this visitor in a foreign land enjoyed was first class all the way. Even if the fish had been baitfish on a bun, one thing was certain, and that is that total strangers really can get along when pretense is put aside.

Upon reflection, this Portuguese captain and crew allowed me to be part of what could have been a biblical story. I suspect the captain had weathered a life-threatening storm somewhere along the way that helped him understand who God is, and what loving your neighbor is all about, especially if the neighbor was a sojourner in a foreign land.    



1 Peter 4:9, Leviticus 19:34, Hebrews 13:2, Matthew 22:39, James 2:8